A will for both spouses Lasting power of attorney in which each spouse designates either the other spouse, or another trusted person, to be their legal agent in the event of incapacitation A written personal relationship agreement including a detailed account of each spouse’s rights and responsibilities with regard to finances, property, support, children and any other issues that are important to the couple. The agreement should also include an acknowledgment that the non-trans partner is aware that their spouse is transgender to avoid any later claims of fraud or deception. Ideally, the couple should draft these documents with assistance from a lawyer and supplement them with any other legal planning documents that are appropriate for their specific circumstances.