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During your job application

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During interviews

  • State your gender identity
  • Express appreciation for their interest in understanding you better
  • Redirect the focus to your skills and qualifications
  • If you are binary, it may be better to state male or female upfront, rather than to use phrases like “authentic self” or “gender identity”, which could be seen as avoiding the question. They may not recognise terms such as gender identity. You can support your answer with how you have been using gendered spaces in public, and it helps to reassure your employer if you have done so for an extended period of time.
  • If you are non-binary, your answer may depend on the organisation’s work culture and dress code. It may help to think of the office gendered attire simply as a uniform. You are performing a role, and outside of the role you can then be your full self. Such an attitude is common in professional work cultures and in countries such as Japan, China and South Korea. You may feel that you want to be able to express your gender identity at work — you could consider checking with someone working in the company about their office culture. If you don’t know anyone, you could also request to speak to HR or a potential colleague regarding this.
  • You may politely decline to discuss any surgeries, emphasising privacy and irrelevance to job performance
  • Highlight that it does not impact your ability to perform in the role
  • Express enthusiasm for the role
  • If you are binary, explain your restroom choice aligned with your gender identity, or your openness to using gender-neutral facilities, which usually means the handicap or executive toilets. If you are applying to a conservative company, they may be more comfortable if you are open to using gender-neutral facilities.
  • If you are non-binary, you may consider reassuring them that you will use the toilet aligned to your sex assigned at birth, or gender-neutral facilities.
  • Gently put across that transitioning is a personal and private journey, that can vary.
  • While for many, transition can never really be ‘complete’, employers are usually seeking reassurance that you will not take a leave of absence for procedures like surgery. If you do have plans for gender reassignment surgery in the near term (like in a year or so), consider informing your employer, though this may make you less likely to get the role.
  • Reassure them your readiness for the role.
  • Consider the company culture to gauge their preference for openness about gender identity. Some employers may have a preference for trans employees not to be out at work. They may not have had a trans employee before, and attitudes could change once they have a positive experience with one.
  • You could consider responding to the question with another — asking if they have a preference.
  • Some may ask you to be out as part of a culture of ‘openness and honesty’. Explain that your gender identity does not affect how you communicate and contribute to the workplace.
  • When you are offered a job

    During onboarding and orientation

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    “I noticed (insert action). That makes me (insert emotion) because (insert reason). Would you be open to (insert specific request).”

    The T Project and TransgenderSG offer sensitisation workshops for organisations, so we can inform and educate allies in the workplace on what it means to be trans. Reach out to us!